About Cynthia

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My path to this work began with a personal quest for deeper self-connection. Growing up with traditional narratives around intimacy and sensuality, I felt disconnected from my body’s innate wisdom. Over time, I embarked on a journey of unlearning and exploring practices like Somatica Sexology, Reiki, BDSM/Kink, Shibari, Energetic Healing Modalities, Tantra, Ayurveda, Sound Healing and Kundalini Yoga. These tools helped me shed layers of shame, heal old wounds, and embody a deep sense of pleasure and purpose.

In my practice, I weave together tools like shibari (rope bondage), ethical kink, energy healing, kundalini yoga, and ayurveda—not as performance or spectacle, but as sacred technologies for surrender, trust, and emotional release. My approach blends the playful with the profound, creating spaces where people feel safe, seen, and celebrated.

I’m also the host of the Her Drive podcast, where I share unfiltered conversations with women boldly walking unmarked paths toward lives of purpose, pleasure, and power. It’s a home for soulful storytelling and feminine fire.

Before stepping into this work and studying Somatic Sexology at the Somatica® Institute, I lived many lives—from political advocacy to TV hosting to founding a boutique travel company. These adventures honed my ability to design experiences that are intentional, expansive, and full of heart.

Above all, I believe that pleasure is medicine, truth is liberation, and playful connection is the ultimate path to wholeness.

If you’re ready to explore new realms of self-discovery, heal what’s been hidden, or simply come home to your embodied brilliance, I’d be honored to walk beside you.

My Work

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My Approach

At the core of my work lies a deep belief: your body holds the keys to your healing and liberation. Through somatics, energy work, and spirituality, I create a safe and nurturing space for you to:

  • Deshamify: Unlearn the cultural narratives and internalized shame that disconnect you from your sensual and emotional truth. Together, we’ll rewrite these stories and open the door to empowerment and acceptance.
  • Heal Through Energy Work: Using modalities like Reiki and Kundalini Yoga, I’ll guide you in aligning your energetic body, releasing blockages, and accessing deeper states of calm, clarity, and pleasure.
  • Embodied Connection: Through somatic techniques, you’ll rediscover the language of your body and learn how to listen to its whispers, emotions, and desires.
  • Spiritual Integration: I weave spiritual practices into our work, connecting you to a higher sense of purpose, self-love, and the divine energy that flows through us all.

My Offerings

I offer a range of tailored experiences that honor where you are and where you desire to grow:

  • Intimacy Coaching: Personalized sessions designed to help you explore intimacy, boundaries, and pleasure at your own pace. We break down disbelief, work to deshamify desires & liberate your desires which lead to greater connection with self and others.
  • Somatic Shibari Sessions: A non-sexual yet deeply transformative experience combining rope work with somatic practices to foster surrender, self-discovery, and trust.
  • Energy Healing: Reiki and Light Code sessions to clear emotional and physical blockages, helping you feel more aligned and whole.
  • Workshops and Webinars: Group experiences focusing on themes like desire, surrender, and erotic embodiment.
  • Kundalini Yoga Practices: Tailored classes to help you access the transformative power of your inner energy and emotions.

Connect Further

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Client Testimonials

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Even though vivid images of old, traumatic memories bubbled up, l was able to feel them… be sad about them, acknowledge them, but not let it overtake me.

I believe it’s because I was in a state of physically being touched and held. I’m not sure? Compared to talk psychology it just heals differently… for me anyway.  Somatic modalities are incredibly impactful for me.  I’ve had some girls reach out with curiosity about the practice and I shared your information. I hope that’s ok! I wish more people would try it and experience it and get whatever they need out of it.

Kat R.
I feel so blessed to have been a part of the experience. Sooo special. <3 Feeling so sexxxy, loved and held. Thank you. Thank you.
Linda A.
Taking a class with Cynthia was nothing short of transformative. She offers clear instruction, patient guidance, and thoughtful feedback, making even the most complex ties feel accessible and empowering. Her passion for the craft is contagious, and her respect for the art of shibari adds depth to each session.

Whether you’re new to shibari, or looking to refine your skills, self tying or with a couple, Cynthia provides an experience that is as emotionally enriching as it is educational. Her classes are not just about rope—they’re about connection, intention, and discovering new layers of self-awareness through the art of tying.

We left each session feeling grounded, inspired, and more confident in my practice. I couldn’t recommend Cynthia more highly. She laid out the groundwork for us to expand and further develop our practice and passion. 

Val & Manny R.
Thank you for being generous with your time!

I feel so good and confident. Going through the scenarios helped a lot. I swear you should totally make videos because it will help so many men and women.

The pit in my stomach when talking about it has went away. I’m excited to see if it will still be there when I am actually using it.

Mika
Thank you so much for the seminar! I love it! The visualization techniques you used were extremely helpful! And I liked the beginning breathing exercises which really helped me focus on my body. This seminar will definitely help me in the future with ladies that I am fortunate enough to get close to! No man can ever know enough about how to treat a lady with respect and passion…

Thanks again Cynthia for being Cynthia! You are one-of-a-kind and the couples, girls or guys that learn from you personally are very lucky to have you in their lives!

Gene W.
I always thought you were an Angel, but now I know for sure you are one.

I feel great about it, it was an experience unlike anything I have done before. Thank you. 

Pahlvan